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I hate to take something from a song, much less a Beyonce song but in this case, "If you want it, then you better put a ring on it." (Of course when it comes to Muslims, you don't need a ring to get married but you get my point.)Basically, Dating makes you forget about Allah (obeying him, doing the right thing).The daily challenge of obeying Allah and doing the right thing becomes harder and less active in your mind as you become increasingly attracted to your mate with your thoughts, emotions, and time.

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God instructs all of us eligible bachelors and bachelorettes to maintain our chastity until marriage (Quran Verses 5:5, 23:5-7, -31, -31).

Chastity is defined Quranically in 23:6 as avoiding sexual relations.

Let me break the suspense by saying that I have yet to find that one verse.

The good news is that my search has given me a much better understanding of this difficult question.

In this case, the relationship should be called a friendship, not dating, and all parties involved should have a clear understanding of this from the very beginning without any room for guesswork or temptation.

Even then, what one day seems like just a friendship may develop into something more.

Based on the flawed reasoning, sexual relations with someone who is rightfully yours is not as bad and makes you feel less guilty about your actions.

If you think about this line of reasoning carefully, you will find some big problems.

For one thing, there are verses in the Qur’an which regard this type of interaction as much more serious than we would like to think.

All the mushy stuff--unfortunately for those unattached--should only be reserved for husband and wife.

What's the big deal with a little kiss or hand holding?

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