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People with larger social circles and more close friends also tend to have higher levels of self-esteem, which in turn gives them a greater feeling of control in their life.

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We’ll get together with friends to play games or watch the UFC match, but we know shockingly little about them.

We get uncomfortable when they’re crying because they’ve been dumped and the best thing we can think to do is take them out and get them drunk and laid because making them not .

It takes a surprising amount of courage to open up and reach out to other men – after all, it requires fighting against years of social coding and gender expectations.

By trying to foster a more intimate bond with somebody, you’re tacitly making yourself vulnerable and admitting to weaknesses, which is part of how men lose status amongst other men.

Someone you can share deep and personal parts of your life with? As we grew up, we had our best friends, other boys around our age who were as close with as brothers might ever be. Being seen as being too close with somebody meant that you weren’t friends, it meant that at least I’m not being hyperbolic when I say that this lack of intimacy hurts us.

When you’re feeling like you need to offload something. In fact, men – especially heterosexual white men – tend to have few deep, emotional connections with other men. The strange thing is, it didn’t used to be this way. In fact, having an intimate friendship with another boy became undesirable, a mark of suspicion.

In doing so, you may find yourself put into the position of being your friend’s emotional Sherpa, showing the way… There will be people who may call you “fag” or ask why you’re suddenly acting like a chick…

even when want more closeness and intimacy as well.

Yes, the myth of the rugged individual tells us that we should be able to handle everything on our own, but in reality, humans are pack animals. Moreover, people who have fewer friends have higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol and greater cardiovascular issues.

On the other hand, people with strong social support and close ties to friends and family have greater levels of emotional material support when things go wrong. Our friends, after all, tend to rally to our side in times of crisis.

Despite the fact that we want more, closer male friends, it can be incredibly difficult to actually foster those friendships.

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