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After deciding to enroll at Towson University, friends of mine joked about me going to “the hood” and the violence in the Baltimore area, but I was never worried.

Fitting into this lifestyle felt more natural to me than living in Rochester ever did.

He showed me new music, food, and gave me a new perspective to consider.

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I was running around my house in a black one piece bathing suit and remember looking down at my stomach, thinking that it stuck out too much.

I immediately sprinted outside in the daylight to get a better look and make sure I wasn’t fat.

Flo Rida’s “Can’t Believe It” flowed through party speakers with its lyrics “Damn that white girl got some a** I don’t believe it” and “black girl got some a** it ain’t no secret”, taking me back to feelings of insecurity I started having as a little kid.

The first time I had ever questioned my physical appearance was before I even began first grade.

Dating a black man is not the same as dating a white man.

I was pushed out of my comfort zone and I learned more than I ever would have had I been with some someone who grew up just as I did.

The most significant difference among them is that this Rochester belongs to a New England state that is listed in bold when you Google “Least diverse state.” If you flip through my year book from senior year, you will count 3 black students in my class, only one of them being male.

Although New Hampshire is over 94% “white alone”, (and zero percent Native American) my high school proudly flaunts the Red Raider mascot, a stereotypical Native American with a face tinted blood red (Census Bureau, 2014).

It put me in a box, limiting me in ways I didn’t realize until recently.

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