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It was a situation I had never been exposed to before. We argued, he apologised but I told myself I needed to remove myself from a situation that hurt me.
Besides, I’d never thought about going out with someone who had a child before, I’d never had to as it wasn’t something I came across in my own world – none of my friends had children, none of their partners had children so it was an alien situation.
However, I was given various words of warning; ‘it will impact your life too much’ and ‘you’re too young’ etc. I didn’t take much notice, as it’s not that out of the ordinary anymore.
I only found out my ex had a child a few days after we met.
I was initially a little shocked but came around to the idea after remembering how much I liked him.
Its precious time which could have been spent turning me into the person I want to be right now, rather than trying to be the right person for someone else.
Are you a single mom ready to find that special someone?To be honest, I wasn’t content with being someone’s third fiancé either.I would miss him very much but continuing the relationship didn’t just mean I would have settled down, but settling.In hindsight, perhaps I should have really ended it there. He decided to move out of the flat owned by his ex’s father and live with his mum for a bit until we could afford something together.This was framed as ‘he had done it to make me feel more comfortable’ but then, when we argued, it was ‘I moved out of my flat for you.’ I wanted a future with him, but there was something in my gut telling me things were moving too fast and I was entering into a period of my life I pictured happening in my 30s – all this should be happening after moving upwards in my career, travelling a little, writing a lot and taking each day as it came.It was the relationship he had with the mother of his child.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating