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(“Just because you’re 44 and you don’t like to do ___ doesn’t mean ___.”) Just as you wouldn’t want him to continuously blame certain things you do on your age (like you’re a child), I wouldn’t recommend doing the same. An older man might know what he wants for himself in the next span of years, but so do his family members.

It has its perks and it has its bummer moments, but I think dating up in age is something that women should do at least once in life, even if it doesn’t turn into something serious.

Dating an older man can teach you a lot, especially about yourself (and what you do and don’t want in a partner), but it’s not always the easiest of relationships. Just in case you’re thinking of getting serious with a fella quite a few years older or even decades older than you, here are a few things you might want to keep in mind before you get it crackin’.

Sometimes you just have to accept that you might be messing with a party pooper, and from there you will have to determine if his lack of spontaneity is enough to make you leave because you feel you’re being held back.

But for the most part, suggesting a range of fun things that don’t become repetitive could get him out of his set ways slowly but surely. Like I said, if you allow it, things can get pretty dull.

I just have to stick to my guns and keep saying no...also have a child together so that makes it a bit harder too...againtell him to give you a call if he is ever single again,, you should think more of yourself than to just be some guy's other woman! So not only is he a scumbag, but he's a LAZY one..can't even go find some new meat for his also ferymay..... If her persists..tell him that if he doesn't stop you will tell his wife. If he's truly unhappy then he should get divorced and then take some time to figure out exactly what he wants in life..after that if you two want to be together, then you can.

if he still loves you so much tell him to get a divorce and call you when it has been finalized! i met a married man once and he wanted me and i was the other woman for about two wekks,. I do agree with what everyone is saying ...yes I know his wife very well at this point..is another reason I keep saying no...I don't want my daughter to be afected by all this...enough she doesn't even know him...he makes it very hard to keep saying no...more power to him if he choose to look some where else ..it won;t be my problem any more...right?? It's obvious that he does not have any respect for his marriage to her so why would he have any different with you.

You don’t have to hit up a nightclub every weekend, but you definitely don’t want to spend too many weekends being the coupled up couch potatoes.

Joking from time to time is cool, but don’t get too comfortable trying to blame certain issues on his age.

Know soon into a relationship with an older man where you all stand on different things that could be a big deal in the future, including kids, marriage, and your feelings on cohabitation and more, and you should be able to make the relationship work as if you were dating someone the same age as you.

Many parents of teenage girls face a tough problem.

While I love me some him, my partner has no problem with chilling indoors all day, catching up on his taped shows and eating the same rice dish every week. Feel free to encourage an opportunity for the both of you to cook together. Hit up a cute wine bar and talk about more than work.

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