Being intimidating guy

It can, and the same woman who intimidates you is likely intimidated by you, and for all the same reasons. I can only speak for myself here, but I imagine it applies to others, too. Independent would love nothing more than a man who can give my independence a rest at times and take the lead.

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Being intimidating guy

Do you feel better after getting this off your chest, as if we are in a first interview and you need to shake your nerves by being brutally honest?

Newsflash: This is not an interview and even if it were, you would never tell the person interviewing you that he or she is “intimidating."I'd rather you just tell me you're nervous because it's endearing.

She knows who she is and what she wants out of life. They command — never demand — attention, and they do it with mesmerizing grace and style. If you were a fly on the wall for our girls' nights, our one-on-one conversations, you would immediately lose all intimidation. The same girl you're too afraid to talk to starts each morning with a kitchen dance party.

The same woman you find intimidating is also really good at making the same raunchy jokes as you are. She's clumsy and messy, can “man” a BBQ, yells at the TV for her team, enjoys downtime on the couch and eating junk food. Just her, the dog, a cup of coffee and the Top 40 getting down with her wet hair and makeup-free face.

Don't settle because it won't work.”My point is, you're already winning if you're stepping up to bat.

Women who intimidate you still have feelings and fairytale dreams; they just don't show all their cards on the first (or seventh) play.The story behind who she is and the elements you find so intimidating are what you will fall madly in love with.Her trials, tribulations, successes, the way she expresses herself, captivates an audience, works a room, shows compassion, stands her ground or maybe even how she writes.That is, unless you want women to just start calling you a resting assh*le (“RA” for short).Women won't stop at your face; we'll label all of you as that.If you find a prospect who provides this, grab ahold and never let go. You want someone who inspires you with her loving, well-intentioned actions — not words or demands. Intimidation builds her own career, makes her own money, pays for her own way and carries her own bags. It would be great to come home to someone who can take the lead; someone I trust can make plans, carry some weight and let me be vulnerable. Albeit biased, I have some of the most amazing female friends; many of whom have been victim to the “You're intimidating” accusation. These same women are stunningly beautiful, many tall and still rocking high heels because they are confident and not sorry for being 6 feet tall. We are intimidating because we grabbed life by the horns and made it the best damn ride possible, and we're still holding on.

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